Sadness, It's helps just to get things out sometimes. I'm glad you can come here and do that with people who understand. Sending (((BIG HUGS))).
You're gonna be ok! Just keep praying that this time in jail will be his time
to get clean and he'll decide to turn his life around.
(In NC we have an offender search screen on the NC DOC website that gives you sentencing history and release date info. I tried to look up for MO, but its different and doesn't give sentencing history or release info.)