(((Gwen))) When it rains, it pours. Probably feels like that to you now. It sounds like Paul may be stressed to the max right now and you too. I know that I would overreact at times with my AD over things that I would have taken in stride if I had not felt so overwhelmed. Sending prayers that things will work out for you. Hugs, Marle P.S. I probably would have driven too if the choice was that or jail. Glad you made it there and back safely.