thanks, greet - daughter continues to call in a panic. my answer - "i understand this is difficult. i suggest you go to a meeting, call your sponsor, and call your lawyer."
i will not be going to rescue her and bring her home if they ask her to leave. she'll have to make other arrangements until my husband and i have a chance to make the decision that is best for us. not saying i won't ever let her come back home, i just won't feel pressured to be reactive/sucked into to any more of the chaos.
blessings, k