The idea of setting good boundaries is to provide clarity, communication, and it takes a lot of bravery to do it.
For me, it takes clarity, communication AND consistency. I have to mean what I say and say what I mean. I've also learned that I can be flexible with my boundaries as things change, but I mustn't be wishy-washy.
There's a lot of good info in the post above tropikgal. Thank you for sharing it!
~ Cat