I have been where you are...had my son arrested for pot, but not for stealing. He has taken so much money from me and his brother over the last three years. When I called the cops, they told me it was a family issue. He's only 16 so I guess it wasn't that big of a deal to them. He is finally in rehab, I don't know what to tell you either. They put us in an impossible situation===we love them and we have to have them arrested. If we don't respect our own rights, no one else will. Be strong
khrea