Pretty Woman;
I have often wondered why I PUT MY FOCUS on what he/she/they are going and why they are doing it WHEN I don't even know WHY I do some of the things I do.
Could it be that I am a codie???? LOL. YOU BET I AM!!!! That's why I did it....BEFORE AL-ANON....now I realize that it's my life I am living and to ----- with why they are doing it.
Like the slogan says......Live and Let Live! Just let them live their life somewhere else...not in my living room.
Hugs!