If it was just the Bf or a stranger I would have already been on the phone finding out how to get the arrested your right I would want revenge an most likely I'd be telling people that maybe it would help them in the long run...
so I see your point. As for her being pregnant yes makes it worse I think...she also has a 4 yr old that lives with us that I have to think about...an he has lived here all his life.. the thought of making her mad an her taking him away scares me to death... Yet I know in the long run she has to get better before she can be any kind of mother to him.....Thanks everyone for your thoughts on this an your prayers..