OK---I did it--not for stealing but for something else--if my AS would have done that--yes I would turn him in....I did have my son arrested and he went to jail--only for a week until trial date--then I made a deal with the judge that my AS would go into inpatient rehab followed by out patient-followed by a year of testing weekly for any substances--for a year--it worked so far...if he is stupid enough now to not follow the rules he will go to jail for 2 years---that will not be my fault but his........sorry you have to go through this.....