Thanks for sharing yoour story..Our daughter wrote bad checks from her own account last year when she was on a crack binge, most of which we covered for her. Also she is on probation for dui an possission. We have helped her alot an let alot go in the past, she has never been to rehab that's why I thought of well guess you could call it "blackmailing" her to make her go. She is also 9 weeks pregnant I forgot that part.