Patch, how very sad, so sorry for you loss, please listen to what is being said here, make yourself and what you are dealing with a top priority and get some professional help with the grieving process, there are stages to it and it you bypass one now, it will come back around later in life and I can just say from experience in this situation, deal with it now and with help, you deserve that. The reason the addicts are so loving and sweet one time and then stealing from us the next is because they are in there somewhere and so is the addict, may Keith rest in peace. peace-blackbird