I love your sponsors words...and she is right!! Give some thought to what you have to say.
There was a time several years ago that Ward broke a coffee table...and it was the second one that he broke, falling on it while he was drunk. Also the same week he set off the smoke alarm by pushing the wrong buttons on the microwave (not 3 minutes but 30 and he was passed out on the couch...no one was home but him). I will never forget how calmly I managed to say "I am not leaving today but I can't continue to do this forever"
He still drinks, but none of those things have happened again...I don't know if it was what I said. Probably not. But I DO know I was honest and calm. And there was not alot he could say back.
Hugs,
JT