(((((ngu))))))
hey u! it's been awhile. glad your back for an update.
man! what an update.
i'd keep the money, say thanks graciously and move on.
who cares if she feels like a martyr.
if this is beneficial to you and j...that's where your priorities lie.
she can't hurt you if you don't let her.
plus you'll have extra money to save for that sweet boy's future.
he deserves it.
love to you both,
linda