ps............the idea of knocking it of the X's child support..................I wouldnt do this. For one its not her responsibility to pay x's child support...........he shouldnt get off the hook like that.....right?
But giving the $$$$ directly to her grandchild for his future use.............seems like a good idea
Giving something up for lent..........I'm not catholic but isnt that a sacrific or a cleansing type gesture.........to bring one closer to god?
Maybe the rift between the two of you is on her mind.........so this is why she chose this for her lent offering?