Originally Posted by
caughtinthemid To counter that, I created index cards of specific incidents that either solidified my position to leave, or embarassed or harmed me. When I got to missing him too much and only remembering the good times, I read a few of those cards to remind me of the "full picture" and try to keep my decision grounded.
Caughinthemid,
My Thank You icon is still not working, but I wanted to Thank You for that index card tip. My Ex-ABF, I guess I should say my Ex-RABF and I have been talking and I have been mentally reminding myself of what it was like. Index cards would help so I don't "accidently forget" certain situations.
Besides, I need them for my fourth step that I need to do again!
Lithloren