Cece, If it feels right to you, then make the call. Another thing is you could suggest that he make the call but that you will be there beside him to help him with questions or moral support. I have done that with my daughter in the past and it worked out okay. She did it herself but she did not have to feel totally alone. I know that sometimes, even as a 53 year old adult, that if my husband is beside me, it helps me to know that he is supporting me. Hugs, Marle