Wow Elana guess you got even with him. I know how you feel about him putting your life in jeapardy and wanting to get even, but there are serious long term effect this can have on him. I'm not defending him then again. What he did was wrong I agree but 2 wrongs dont make a right. Time will heal your broken heart and you will find someone else, this could haunt him for the rest of his life. I am a recovering addict I have done some pretty stupid stuff I feel bad for the things I have done. I'm just glad the people I hurt in the process could forgive and know somewhere deep inside that I am a good person who just got caught up in some bad things. I am sorry for you pain at some point you have to let go of the anger and stop trying to ruin his life. Your will go on and you will find happiness. maybe I am out of line as usual.