not -
about 7 years ago an old boyfriend called - i was watching my non addicted sisters(d) kids while she and her recovering addicted (r) husband were in china - my currently addicted sister (j) had just watched the kids for a few days before i got there - old boyfriend called to say that j was bringing kids with her to some crack house - he was concerned - because she seemed to lose all sense - apparently he could smoke crack and was sensible about it - i freaked - that is when my ex bil became an ex - he divorced sister not long after she was bringing her older boys - then babies - to a crack house - sorry to go on about me here - i guess i just wanted to say i understand - and it still sucks - i think he called because he was worried she had sunk to a new low - maybe your daughters friend wanted to create some new drama or maybe she just wanted to cleanse her sould somehow - crack and kids - addiction - it makes no sense - ever - does it??????
with love,
s