thank you all. the funeral went off great. it was beautiful and we had an open casket. at first her mother was not too sure if it would be a good idea. but after all was done she was happy that we had it that way. we all got to pay our last repects to her. she had alot of friends and it was standing room only and people were even lined up outside. she looked like she was still sleeping and at peace. after school I borught my daughter up to the cemetery where she left mommy some flowers and we spent a few minutes visiting. us and close friends and family. thank you all my friends for all your spiritual support. she would have loved that. and on a side note, i somehow think that the confusion of yesterday was her way of telling us she is ok and still around and thinking of all of you as well. It would be so like her.