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Old 03-05-2007, 10:24 PM
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caughtinthemid
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It probably sounds simple but

what I did when I left my AH, I found myself missing him and romanticizing the good times. To counter that, I created index cards of specific incidents that either solidified my position to leave, or embarassed or harmed me. When I got to missing him too much and only remembering the good times, I read a few of those cards to remind me of the "full picture" and try to keep my decision grounded.

I was not married for a very long time, but I was completely in love with the man, and it took a long time to get over it. This was 18 yrs ago and I have not remarried. But I am able to let that relationship go now. I hope you find equal peace soon.
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