Xabf in general was a good way and continues to be the ultimate way of getting over him. Everytime I think he's remotely normal, he speaks..... and then I'm continuously reminded why I walked away from it all. Sometimes I find myself slipping back into the fantasy world but he always comes through..... bringing me right back to that reality!!!!!!
My friends were helpful in getting through alot of the crying and supporting me to actually walk away from it all. But, mostly I had to get through it myself and move passed it on my own.