Funkster,
I was wondering how things were going for you the other day. You know as sad as it may be he just probably isnt ready to stop. And if that is so this is when you need to make the decisions, to stay with him and deal with the ups and downs or completely let go. I know it's not as simple as that ..... I am going through similiar things as well. We need to decide when is enough enough, when we pick ourself up and say we need better for ourselves. The same way they arent ready to give it up, we arent ready to give them up. Corine know I am praying for you and I am praying for your abf as well. I hope he is safe.
Hugs,
Jewel