For anyone going through this painful process I just want to add. Like you all know.....I found someone wonderful to share my life with. It took a long time, but it happened. They are out there I promise. The most important thing you can do is to take some time out for yourself to get to know you again and to process your feelings. Rome wasn't built in a day and healing takes time and patience. Embrase those times you feel lonley. They only serve to make you stronger and more comfortable with being alone with your best friend.....who btw should be YOU.