Good topic. I will be interested in seeing what everyone else has to say. I just finally broke it of with ex-ABF this weekend... although it has probably been coming for a long time.
I have to keep myself pretty busy not to go into that "romanticizing" as Noah spoke of right now - I figure, too, that time will heal most of what's hurting right now. And trying to come to the resolution that I made the right decision - that's important too.