What helped you get over your ex?
I'm sure this has been asked b4 but I often wonder what did everyone who has left their addict do to heal the broken heart? I see people on here who are leaving after 17 + yrs of marriage or being in a relationship. Doesnt matter how long your with your addict it hurts to leave sometimes more than staying.
I found my friends to be a huge part of moving on. I found thinking about all the bad instead of the good to be helpful too. I know it took alot of time and some mourning I thought he was my soul mate but obviously he had one love and it wasnt me. SIGH!
Any advice or tips? This might help some newcomers since there are no other threads.