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i_love_cake ... I decided.... Ex..... Agf
If "I" decided to step into a boxing ring, I have two choices... get beat up or defend myself. So no matter what happens in that ring... it is of my own doing.
Now the other thing I am wondering...
Is she and Ex or not?
Maybe a soon to be or an almost Ex?
By doing the same thing over and over and getting the same results each time...
You don't need be married and having children to feel the full torture you are putting on yourself.
What is the difference between bad mouthing her after the fact for doing just what you know she would do vs telling her to her face that what you are allowing her to do is hurting you? Blaming her for what you allow her to do is in a sense being rude to her, even if her actions deserve being brought out.