Help for my daughter
 

My daughter is 22. My A ex and I divorced 9 years ago. His life has spiraled down, and he has now lost wife #2, his family, and friends. My daughter is being guilted by him to "Help" and be his "support system". He says he wants to stop drinking and wants to attend meeting with her! She's uncomfortable with this, but feels guilty AND is constantly trying the earn dad's love.

I'm trying to be neutral while explaining to her that he is being inappropriate. Any words of wisdom for me to give her?

Thanks~