My ex- A found his way onto a forum I was on before. It was awful. He trashed me so bad on one of my threads, but it did not work. There is nothing like the fury of an Alanoner whos brother or sister is attacked in the "safe zone"! Needless to say, he did not return, at least not to the Alanon side. I would love nothing more than to see him show up in an NA forum though. Anyways, I was so mad when I saw WenchRetort invade, but I know how hard it is to read the destruction that we cause our loved ones is. I am glad he posted elsewhere as well. Hope things keep on in the right direction for the both of ya!
LG