Wow, I also remember the frist time I read these a few mo ths ago. I am thrilled to see I've gone from nearly all yes's to nearly all no's. There are still a few I have to work on, but thats real progress. My only fear is that many of my no's are because I am currently separated from my AH. If he continues in sobriety and we reconcile, I wonder how many I will STILL be able to say not to honestly. I better work my program hard to be prepared for that. This list coming back was great timing for me. Thanks.