Hi! I'm very new to this...my first note.
Living with the disease is very difficult. No one should take my inventory or invade my meeting. I beleive that we are all entitled to our space. I attend a local mtg hosted by AA which is an AA & Alan-On Q&A - it looks at things from both perspectives. Maybe if your other half is receptive sometime in the future it would be an option.
Best to you!!!