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Old 01-23-2007, 04:52 AM
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Lisa1978
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: London, England
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Originally Posted by Cynay View Post
There is no reason you cant love him, the trick is loving yourself more and not allowing someone to treat you that way. As time goes by it will get better, I had to go with no contact though .... I know he just messes with my head and I could not allow him near me or to talk to me while I healed. If I were to see him today I dont think it would effect me... not that Im going to try it.

I know that you are right. I find it so hard trying to gather the strength to not speak to him. I still feel like I just want to hug him and tell him that it will all be okay. What I really want is for him to do that to me! I am trying to stay strong, really, really trying hard not to call and get my head clear so that I can think about the decisions that I have to make. Thank you for listening to me.
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