I believe that for right now until his financial obligations are met the open marriage is going to be good for me. It will keep him off my back about intimacy issues and will give me the much needed freedom I desire. I warned him before he accepted the terms that the door swings both ways and what's good for him is good for me too!
And our financial obligations aren't so big that they will keep him here too long, maybe 3 or 4 months.
After that he will be able to afford a place of his own and I wont have to chase him for his share of the bills.