Thank you all for the welcome and support.
I found this forum after searching for a place like this for months
so yes, I am at The "something's gotta give" moment.
I have had enough.
at one point I was willing to let him reduce his drinking. I was foolish to think that would work. It lasted for 1 day! With an alcoholic it's either do or die, there is no in between. I feel if they want to change they MUST quit...not bargain for a cutback.
So unfortunatley for my husband he is at the do or die point with me.
I will come back tonight and post and let you all know how it turns out but I am almost sure I know this outcome.
Again, thank you for welcoming me