Welcome Spent,
I hope you keep coming back...I also hope this works out well for you..It sounds like you have already made your mind up as to the two things that can happen...I usually come up short when I do that 'cause my Higher Power knows more than I do about this thing called life...
Be sure to come back and let me know how it goes for you...in the meantime why don't you read some of the power posts at the beginning. It can't hurt.
Love and prayers from one who cares