T-bear
What you said really resonates for me. I was fairly happy with AA for a few (maybe 4) weeks until a woman did a "share" about being bulimiac (sp?) and an alk. I was absolutely furious that I had had to sit through something that meant nothing to me and I left.
I am most scared of "ruining" my life by being an AA-goer, an "other" person. I am single (divorced) and who wants to go out with an AA dork? I agree that I have ruined most relationships through drink, but really, what normal-o wants to go out with a "follower".
It's not nice, but I've said it and I bet lots of you think it.
Best wishes
Jane