Old 01-05-2007, 08:03 PM
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sunny
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We had an argument last night. This morning he promised me he will only drink during the weekend:Frid-Sat-Mon. I was very happy when I heard that, but at the same time is something wrong about it....
He doesnīt get violent or abusive when he drinks. He tends to isolate himself. And yes, he can manage his life (though socially poor life). That is why whenever we discuss about it I ended up like a kid saying something like "I know is bad because I know itīs bad". As he asked me, I couldnīt prove to him any really really bad sort of behaviour while drinking.
You are right, itīs because he hasnīt hit bottom, he thinks he can manage.

I remember once he didnīt drink, almost to make a point out of it, he he got into a terrible mood.
He said he is not gonna drink during the week, from next Monday. I hope he does so, and I hope I will develop tones of patience too..
So Mcpistho, it does work for you? really?
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