No Retort. My father was not happy in his final days. He was scared and miserable and sorry and trying to prolong his life just a few more months. But it was too late.
But we do not come here to chastise drunks. We don't try to abolish drinking. This forum and alanon are simply not about you. We are here to help each other deal with our codependent issues specific to alcoholics. And if someone is angry... we understand.
Now if YOU are angry... there are some alcoholics who will understand over on the Alcoholism and AA forums.