towards the end of my relationship with xah, i detached from the constant crisis and chaos....everytime he would threaten those things like suicide, i treated it like anyother person who had done said same thing. i called 911 and calmly stated that he had threatened to kill himself. yeah, the local 911 got real desensitized to hearing these calls....but i was calm, cool, collected and just kept reacting just like i would to someone else.
after several of these incidents, at least xah learned not to spout these ridiculous threats my way, cause he got tired of sobering up in the mental ward.
which leads me to another question....he seemed to have control enough to stop saying he was gonna kill himself because in the end, it inconvenienced him sobering up in the mental ward....if he had enough control to stop doing that, then where is the control to stop hurting others so badly with his horrible words and actions???? makes you think, huh???
love to all
jeri