It must feel strange to have him back in the home! How long was he in treatment? Has he drank through your whole marriage? If he has a sober husband might act differently. As I see it, you have two choices u could forgive him or you could let the frustration eat U up. Do u want to work on your marriage. Ha, I will be the first one to say at some point too much damage can be done. I had to scrap my first but in the long run I know I made the right choice. With my second marriage I have had to work on it but the + outweigh the - 's. Working through the anger is a real process but it can be done. Your therapist sounds like a smart cookie! Trust on the other hand is a must in my opinion. Refresh my memory, did he cheat? Is it something u may get back if he shows u positive action. Well, take care of u and best of luck to u both. Kerry