Doesn't add up
Hi Everyone,
I've decided that I no longer accept blame from the men in my life.
I may have been put in a spot by my mother when I was a child to be responsible for her but as an adult it all doesn't add up to 2 + 2= it's Ngaires fault.
I work on taking responsibility for my side of the street AND DON'T take responsibility for the other side of the street.
The ex A wanted to talk to me last week and when I asked if he was clean,sober getting better he responded with "He's changed his mind about having an "honest" conversation with me because I'm "condescending."
Again, my fault. Well it's not my fault that he lied, drank, probably used, spent a better part of a year drinking and probably using and lying about everything.
Feels good to get that off my chest.
Bye for now
Ngaire