Hi Zephyr,
I'm intrigued by your comment about your husband when you first tried to get sober. I have a similar delimma in that my husband doesnt believe I have a problem and I find myself trying to convince him and me that I do. Hard enough to admit it to me but trying to make someone else believe it - arghh! Part of my problem is the fact that my husband is a hardcore, low bottom alcoholic in recovery for about 16 years. Because I dont drink like him I must not have a problem in his eyes. Any ESH that might help me drown out that voice that keeps telling me I dont really have a problem.