I t really cripples everyone in the house. We don't realize to what degree. We keep the dinner warm and the kids quiet. We don't have friends over and neither do they. We hate mentioning a bill. We can't have the wrong show on Tv or have it on too loud. we can't tie up the phone with our nonsense. The kids can't wear sneakers like their friends and we don't buy a new lipstick from Avon because that stuff is just junk. Beer isn't junk. Buying rounds isn't junk. They don't just entitle themselves to thier own paycheck to spend as they please, they tell you how to spend yours. If the taxes com e, it leads to an hour of ranting about the government. If they get shorted an hour on thier paycheck, they rant about it for an hour. Don't you complian about being shorted an hour, that leads to another rant aobut your boss for an hour. They don't handle the bills, they don't do a thing with the kids, They don't even want to watch TV, You kept dinner warm because last night you didn't and then they aren't hungry. What part of this are any of us supposed to miss?