I don't know. I am kind of like Cynay....if she would have asked, be it a family or friend, I would gladly help out with the money and it would be a gift not a loan.
The underlying issue is the dynamic of the relationship. And what I see is that daughter is lacking proper respect.
I taught and allowed that from my daughter at a difficult time.
What I finally had to do was detach and take the attitude that it was not my huge hurting loss, she was losing the benefit of a loving mother. And I didn't contact her.
Since then, she has matured and we get along, although I sometimes still have to put my respect up for her to see.
just my thoughts,
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