I sometimes need secular people to reach out to for support.
And you've got them!! Hang on in there and if you find a poster difficult you can use the ignore function. I can't remember where the button is but i'll find out again if you can't see it.
Keep posting - we are here and ready to listen. Secular is all good round these parts....
Edit - the ignore function is in the 'CP' control panel, bottom on the left - just press it and it takes you to a page where you can add the name of anyone you want to ignore, once done you'll never see anything they post. Pooof!!