My question is am I being co-dependent by helping him get help, even if hes asking me.
Well, first let me say that I am sorry this has happened. I remember those days, those nights of crying in his sleep..they are hard.
Your question...I think I have no abillity to help another get help they need from a professional. I would be able to be there emotionally and support my husband while he is getting help..but as far as helping him get help..I dont know..what were you thinking of doing to help him?