Just a little update...
The woman I'd asked to give me some pointers was a star! I have so much respect for her and she is vibrant with enthusiasm for learning - but clear in the impacts too much emotion can have on presentation.
After feeling as though maybe I had gone too far I got a little boost today. I got fresh feedback from a different manager of one of the homes, it was nice to hear something positive but the best bit was him saying he was glad I was presenting it. I have faults - lots of them, but HELL I want this to work and I WILL try my heart out to learn well, listen, and present the information the best I can.
All the preparation is done, in less than 12 hours it will be done and over. I will speak quietly, stay on topic, listen carefully and just bloody try....
I care so much about this, to date it has to be the most important thing I've ever tried to achieve - I so don't want to let it down now, I have worked hard.