Lies & such..

[KcCrystal]

What do you do when you see someone lying and hurting others like you have done in the past. Here's the story. As many of you know, I had problems with the truth. Not only was a i dishonest here, I was dishonest on every board I was a member of. Well I see someone doing something very very simalar to what I did, decive people. Yet when I post cold hard proof, they turned it around & said I was the one who made it all up. I have the proof right in front of me in the MSN Message History. I spent over an hour typing the entire thing out by hand, only to have it turned on me.. I refuse to let anyone lie to someone. I know what it's like to be the deciver, this time I want the truth to be told.. and I'm the one getting slammed..

[51anna]

Hi Crystal,

This is just my opinion...

If someone is telling lies about you on this forum, then you need to set the record straight.

If you think someone is telling lies or being deceitful with what they are writing on SR, don't worry about it. For me, I have enough of my own issues to deal with, without worrying about other people living up to a certain standard. If this person is bothering you, then block their posts. Focus on your recovery and moving forward.

[Paulie]

Yep what Anna said. If they are lieing to you, do not be a part of it. If not pray for them and move on, have nothing do with them. What comes around, goes around...good and bad

[KcCrystal]

Thanks for the tips girls.. Just to let you in, it's not on SR. It's another forum I go to. And I've just cut my ties with them.. I am no longer wanted there, so why continue to veiw that site.. I know the truth, and I'll save it inside.. ANd continue doing what I do. Get better! And stay on the straight path

[wanting help]

That sounds like a good thing to do to me. I think sometimes the truth about things such as in this case doesn't always need to come out when you can just walk away and better youself. Good luck to you KcCrystal, to all of us.

[CarolD]

Wise move KC....

Keep in focus. Hugs and blessings

[boop64132]

Crystal,
You can call someone on their lies,but as you know,its up to them to change...like you did.(and btw Im very proud of you)
My son has a huge problem with lying and after I called him on a few,now he is not talking to me.
As we all know especially here at SR,you have to admit that you have a problem in order to gain help and change in our lives.

You have done all you can do by calling them on it.The next step is up to them.Now... focus on Crystal.All will be fine.
(((HUGS)))