Sexual undertones.

[namommy]

I decided to just post this is WIR.

Lately, when responding to something. Whether a post here, a question from another addict or sponsee, or a reaction to a situation. My responses have all had sexual undertones lately.

No matter what it is, I can find a sexual comment to make about it.

It's not really getting to me, but I thought maybe I should post about it. (just in case it is something).

The only thing I can figure is, my son (7) has been very sick and sleeping in bed with me, while my husband has been sleeping on the couch. Even before he got sick he was having nightmares and afraid to sleep in his own bed and sleeping with me. Because of this, there obviously hasn't been much "mommy and daddy" time.

Maybe I am just frustrated.

[hja1407]

namommy

do i ever understand about being frustrated!!!!!!!!OMGosh
I have a 3.5yr old 18 month old and 3 month old. My sex life has become just about nonexistant.
Heather

[Carchick4life]

Um maybe you could try masturbation? When you go to have alone time like the shower. That might be a good way to releave sexual tentions. Maybe you and your husband could get together while your son is at school? Thought I suppose there isn't much time left for kids in school.

[Paulie]

I really hadn't noticed to be honest with you. But if you are aware of it, maybe it is something to think about. Journal about it my friend.

[namommy]

Lately, my journal has been nothing but a 'whine-fest'. I guess I should start getting in a little deeper.

Finding alone time is tough. Although, we are planning on 'making' some alone time tonite. We'll see how well that works out.

Maybe I'm just over-analyzing myself because things have been so off balance lately. I dunno. Thanks for responding. (especially since I didn't even know this thread appeared) When I posted it, it didn't show up on my screen. None of my new threads had until now.

[Paulie]

Maybe a gratitude list...they always help me.

And yeah when you have kids in the house...you have to MAKE that alone time. Since your little one is feeling better, hopefully you can do that this weekend.

[namommy]

I wish I wasn't broke, I'd get a sitter and go away for the night.

I'm sure we can find a way to make the time.


A gratitude list is a good idea, it usually helps, thanks for the reminder. (funny, that's what I would tell my sponsees, but I don't think of it for myself.)

[Andygirl]

I can't imagine not finding the time to have sex, especially if you guys live in the same house. Come on! You can get creative, sex doesn't always have to occur in the bedroom.

[Paulie]

Originally Posted by namommy

A gratitude list is a good idea, it usually helps, thanks for the reminder. (funny, that's what I would tell my sponsees, but I don't think of it for myself.)

Isn't it funny how we do that to ourselves.

[Kahlia]

Well, NaMommy, there is and issue here...No sex....there has to be a way...lets see...drag your husband in the garage, if you have a garage....tear off his T-shirt...OH MY.....I am getting a lil warm....is that what you mean by sexual undertones??? Just Joking...get together and have a little fun damn it......Kahlia

[namommy]

Well, now that we got that out of the way, what's my excuse. lol