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namommy · 10-20-2004, 02:40 PM

Hello Ladies.

Wanted to relay a little bit of my day with you all.

I had to take the jeep to get new tires and a front end alignment today. Well, the guy that owns the place is GORGEOUS. He was this big (not fat), muscular, biker. Very built, long blonde hair (shoulder length) and a very nice beard and mustache. I couldn't help myself.

When he asked if he can call me when the jeep is done, I thought "how about I just wait here and stare at you" I had to remind myself that I am married.

Oh well, as my husband sometimes says "Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu."

ARIES · 10-20-2004, 03:02 PM

Naughty ... Naughty :nono:

jpc2505 · 10-20-2004, 06:48 PM

I know the feeling, namommy! They just hired an absolutly gorgeous hunk of man candy at my job, and I am pretty much worthless when he's in sight. What sucks is I'm shy around attractive people, so this wonderful, outgoing Lisa dissapears when he's around and I'm suddenly tripping over my feet and stuttering...lol. Oh well, I guess that will make sure I don't get too tempted!

cj. · 10-20-2004, 08:14 PM

(((namommy)))

You may be married, but you ain't buried!!

God put nice things on this earth to look at for a reason!!

namommy · 10-20-2004, 08:51 PM

I told my husband that he may not want to send me back there.

He said "I know, I know, I've heard about the owner."

I love my relationship with my man.

ButterflyChaser · 10-20-2004, 08:56 PM

wastedtime4me · 10-21-2004, 12:37 PM

Sounds yummy!!
Is this the positive affirmation thread??
IM MNOT GONNA BE BAD..
IM NOT GONNA BE BAD..
LMAO

namommy · 10-21-2004, 07:15 PM

Guess what!! They messed up and didn't do the alignment right, so I get to go back!!

wastedtime4me · 10-21-2004, 09:16 PM

Ok Thats Bad Right???or Is It???lol..im Jokin..hope They Get It Dont Right~~

ARIES · 10-23-2004, 05:50 AM

$hit $hit $hit..I think I'm in the same situation..But I have to see him every week cos he's my harmonica teacher..Man I don't feel good bout it..Becos my boyfriend ain't always aproaching me so nice and we had a lot of trouble during the 1 year and few months..And since my sobriety my feelings were changing against my boyfriend and than I meet such a nice looking humorous teacher..I really got it difficult with it..But he looks too nice that it's almost impossible he's unmaried :hfrankie

:bonescp

ButterflyChaser · 10-23-2004, 09:04 AM

namommy, you get to go back!

youare too funny!!!

jpc2505 · 10-23-2004, 09:40 AM

Aries, don't use the way he's treated you or an ending relationship as an excuse to cheat on him. I have been very tempted lately myself, I recently met a guy who seems to be very nice, caring, and is down right yummy. My bf and I have a pretty rocky relationship also (complete with the lovely physical and mental abuse at times), and it would be very easy for me to justify cheating on him. But remember this, even if the other guy is the one for you, do you really want to start a new relationship on that kind of foundation? And no matter how bad your relationship is now, you at least owe it to your bf to get out before you begin a new one. Not trying to lecture you, but I'm going through the exact same thing right now and thought my views on it might help a little.

ARIES · 10-23-2004, 06:34 PM

Thanks lisa..you helped me indeed a lot with your post but I
really have no intentions to end the relationship..But I know I'm gonna have difficult times the comming weeks..But I will stick to my boyfriend cos he helped me through tuff times and I just can leave him alone..I love him to much..Whatever... time will tell..But I'm really not the cheating kind :titanic

jpc2505 · 10-23-2004, 11:38 PM

Glad I could help. If you ever need to chat just drop me a line.
tootles, Lisa

Beloved · 10-24-2004, 12:09 AM

Hey G's what's-up you know it's a good thing to go window shopping because it's always done on the out-side of the store. LOL , and you all know how we girls can be when we shop on the inside, we almost always end up with something that we have to take back to the store wrong color, and not your size , or it just looked much better in the window display. Everything that looks good to us is not always good for us . And if it is then we know one is to many , and a thousand is never ever enough. So please be real careful they say where there's smoke there's fire. So don't burn your house down with everything still in it . warning , warning, you have just reached the outter-limits.You know what you have at home , but the other is like opening up a box of chocolate, you don't know what's really in that filling it may cause you to choke, or give you a up-sat stomach, So remember to keep a healthy diet. (Beloved) Love Ya Girls.

ARIES · 10-24-2004, 01:57 AM

:banghead: :hmummy :banghead:

soberS.Thomas · 10-30-2004, 03:12 PM

hey namommy:

If you think your husband isn t looking your crazy. As long as you look whats the harm. I like the widow shopping advice. Aslo the advice about starting a relationship before gettign out of another. My sponsor says I should be on my own for one year between relationships. She is right, but damn it s hard. I have a history of horrible relationships and what I do doesn t work so time I listened to someone else. I m 5 months into my year. I m learning lots about me, and believe me I ve had chances, but its like something pops into my ehad that I cant do it. Almost like she put a spell on me. Oh well it s keeping me out of trouble, and she says I need to think of the messages I am sending to my kids about relationships, and I think that is the most important thing.

But I sure like window shopping.
Jenn

namommy · 10-31-2004, 07:43 AM

Believe me, as much as I b*tch about some of his bad habits, I know I've got it good. He's a good looking man, he treats me like gold, and he loves me and I love him. But, it's still nice to check out something that looks nice once in a while (from a distance).

10-20-2004, 02:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,711	Eye candy. Hello Ladies. Wanted to relay a little bit of my day with you all. I had to take the jeep to get new tires and a front end alignment today. Well, the guy that owns the place is GORGEOUS. He was this big (not fat), muscular, biker. Very built, long blonde hair (shoulder length) and a very nice beard and mustache. I couldn't help myself. When he asked if he can call me when the jeep is done, I thought "how about I just wait here and stare at you" I had to remind myself that I am married. Oh well, as my husband sometimes says "Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu." __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. --Anonymous

10-20-2004, 03:02 PM	#2 (permalink)
ARIES I choose to live Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Antwerp (Belgium) Posts: 386 Blog Entries: 13	Naughty ... Naughty :nono: __________________ There was New York Jake,the butcher boy who was always getting tight And every time that he'd get full he was spoiling for a fight But Jake rampaged against a knife in the hands of old Bob Stein And over Jake they held a wake in the days of '49 (Bob Dylan days of '49)

10-20-2004, 08:51 PM	#5 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,711	I told my husband that he may not want to send me back there. He said "I know, I know, I've heard about the owner." I love my relationship with my man. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. --Anonymous

10-20-2004, 08:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,023	__________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

10-21-2004, 12:37 PM	#7 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 643	Sounds yummy!! Is this the positive affirmation thread?? IM MNOT GONNA BE BAD.. IM NOT GONNA BE BAD.. LMAO __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

10-20-2004, 06:48 PM	#3 (permalink)
jpc2505 Lisa Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Louisiana Posts: 124	I know the feeling, namommy! They just hired an absolutly gorgeous hunk of man candy at my job, and I am pretty much worthless when he's in sight. What sucks is I'm shy around attractive people, so this wonderful, outgoing Lisa dissapears when he's around and I'm suddenly tripping over my feet and stuttering...lol. Oh well, I guess that will make sure I don't get too tempted!

10-20-2004, 08:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
cj. Mending Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Atlantic Canada Posts: 300	(((namommy))) You may be married, but you ain't buried!! God put nice things on this earth to look at for a reason!!

10-21-2004, 07:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,711	Guess what!! They messed up and didn't do the alignment right, so I get to go back!! __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. --Anonymous

10-21-2004, 09:16 PM	#9 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 643	Ok Thats Bad Right???or Is It???lol..im Jokin..hope They Get It Dont Right~~ __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

10-23-2004, 05:50 AM	#10 (permalink)
ARIES I choose to live Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Antwerp (Belgium) Posts: 386 Blog Entries: 13	$hit $hit $hit..I think I'm in the same situation..But I have to see him every week cos he's my harmonica teacher..Man I don't feel good bout it..Becos my boyfriend ain't always aproaching me so nice and we had a lot of trouble during the 1 year and few months..And since my sobriety my feelings were changing against my boyfriend and than I meet such a nice looking humorous teacher..I really got it difficult with it..But he looks too nice that it's almost impossible he's unmaried :hfrankie :bonescp __________________ There was New York Jake,the butcher boy who was always getting tight And every time that he'd get full he was spoiling for a fight But Jake rampaged against a knife in the hands of old Bob Stein And over Jake they held a wake in the days of '49 (Bob Dylan days of '49)

10-23-2004, 09:04 AM	#11 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,023	namommy, you get to go back! youare too funny!!! __________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

10-23-2004, 09:40 AM	#12 (permalink)
jpc2505 Lisa Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Louisiana Posts: 124	Aries, don't use the way he's treated you or an ending relationship as an excuse to cheat on him. I have been very tempted lately myself, I recently met a guy who seems to be very nice, caring, and is down right yummy. My bf and I have a pretty rocky relationship also (complete with the lovely physical and mental abuse at times), and it would be very easy for me to justify cheating on him. But remember this, even if the other guy is the one for you, do you really want to start a new relationship on that kind of foundation? And no matter how bad your relationship is now, you at least owe it to your bf to get out before you begin a new one. Not trying to lecture you, but I'm going through the exact same thing right now and thought my views on it might help a little.

10-23-2004, 06:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
ARIES I choose to live Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Antwerp (Belgium) Posts: 386 Blog Entries: 13	Thanks lisa..you helped me indeed a lot with your post but I really have no intentions to end the relationship..But I know I'm gonna have difficult times the comming weeks..But I will stick to my boyfriend cos he helped me through tuff times and I just can leave him alone..I love him to much..Whatever... time will tell..But I'm really not the cheating kind :titanic __________________ There was New York Jake,the butcher boy who was always getting tight And every time that he'd get full he was spoiling for a fight But Jake rampaged against a knife in the hands of old Bob Stein And over Jake they held a wake in the days of '49 (Bob Dylan days of '49)

10-23-2004, 11:38 PM	#14 (permalink)
jpc2505 Lisa Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Louisiana Posts: 124	Glad I could help. If you ever need to chat just drop me a line. tootles, Lisa

10-24-2004, 12:09 AM	#15 (permalink)
Beloved Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: chicago,illinois Posts: 45	Hey G's what's-up you know it's a good thing to go window shopping because it's always done on the out-side of the store. LOL , and you all know how we girls can be when we shop on the inside, we almost always end up with something that we have to take back to the store wrong color, and not your size , or it just looked much better in the window display. Everything that looks good to us is not always good for us . And if it is then we know one is to many , and a thousand is never ever enough. So please be real careful they say where there's smoke there's fire. So don't burn your house down with everything still in it . warning , warning, you have just reached the outter-limits.You know what you have at home , but the other is like opening up a box of chocolate, you don't know what's really in that filling it may cause you to choke, or give you a up-sat stomach, So remember to keep a healthy diet. (Beloved) Love Ya Girls.

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10-24-2004, 01:57 AM	#16 (permalink)
ARIES I choose to live Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Antwerp (Belgium) Posts: 386 Blog Entries: 13	:banghead: :hmummy :banghead: __________________ There was New York Jake,the butcher boy who was always getting tight And every time that he'd get full he was spoiling for a fight But Jake rampaged against a knife in the hands of old Bob Stein And over Jake they held a wake in the days of '49 (Bob Dylan days of '49)

10-30-2004, 03:12 PM	#17 (permalink)
soberS.Thomas Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: St. Thomas, Ontario Posts: 8	hey namommy: If you think your husband isn t looking your crazy. As long as you look whats the harm. I like the widow shopping advice. Aslo the advice about starting a relationship before gettign out of another. My sponsor says I should be on my own for one year between relationships. She is right, but damn it s hard. I have a history of horrible relationships and what I do doesn t work so time I listened to someone else. I m 5 months into my year. I m learning lots about me, and believe me I ve had chances, but its like something pops into my ehad that I cant do it. Almost like she put a spell on me. Oh well it s keeping me out of trouble, and she says I need to think of the messages I am sending to my kids about relationships, and I think that is the most important thing. But I sure like window shopping. Jenn

10-31-2004, 07:43 AM	#18 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,711	Believe me, as much as I btch about some of his bad habits, I know I've got it good. He's a good looking man, he treats me like gold, and he loves me and I love him. But, it's still nice to check out something that looks nice once in a while (from a distance). __________________ I came into this program to save my a* and found out it was attached to my soul. --Anonymous

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