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Old 10-20-2004, 02:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Eye candy.

Hello Ladies.

Wanted to relay a little bit of my day with you all.

I had to take the jeep to get new tires and a front end alignment today. Well, the guy that owns the place is GORGEOUS. He was this big (not fat), muscular, biker. Very built, long blonde hair (shoulder length) and a very nice beard and mustache. I couldn't help myself.

When he asked if he can call me when the jeep is done, I thought "how about I just wait here and stare at you" I had to remind myself that I am married.

Oh well, as my husband sometimes says "Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu."
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Old 10-20-2004, 03:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 10-20-2004, 06:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I know the feeling, namommy! They just hired an absolutly gorgeous hunk of man candy at my job, and I am pretty much worthless when he's in sight. What sucks is I'm shy around attractive people, so this wonderful, outgoing Lisa dissapears when he's around and I'm suddenly tripping over my feet and stuttering...lol. Oh well, I guess that will make sure I don't get too tempted!
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Old 10-20-2004, 08:14 PM   #4 (permalink)
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(((namommy)))

You may be married, but you ain't buried!!

God put nice things on this earth to look at for a reason!!
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Old 10-20-2004, 08:51 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I told my husband that he may not want to send me back there.

He said "I know, I know, I've heard about the owner."

I love my relationship with my man.
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Old 10-20-2004, 08:56 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 10-21-2004, 12:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Sounds yummy!!
Is this the positive affirmation thread??
IM MNOT GONNA BE BAD..
IM NOT GONNA BE BAD..
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Old 10-21-2004, 07:15 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Guess what!! They messed up and didn't do the alignment right, so I get to go back!!
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Ok Thats Bad Right???or Is It???lol..im Jokin..hope They Get It Dont Right~~
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Old 10-23-2004, 05:50 AM   #10 (permalink)
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$hit $hit $hit..I think I'm in the same situation..But I have to see him every week cos he's my harmonica teacher..Man I don't feel good bout it..Becos my boyfriend ain't always aproaching me so nice and we had a lot of trouble during the 1 year and few months..And since my sobriety my feelings were changing against my boyfriend and than I meet such a nice looking humorous teacher..I really got it difficult with it..But he looks too nice that it's almost impossible he's unmaried :hfrankie :bonescp
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namommy, you get to go back! youare too funny!!!
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Aries, don't use the way he's treated you or an ending relationship as an excuse to cheat on him. I have been very tempted lately myself, I recently met a guy who seems to be very nice, caring, and is down right yummy. My bf and I have a pretty rocky relationship also (complete with the lovely physical and mental abuse at times), and it would be very easy for me to justify cheating on him. But remember this, even if the other guy is the one for you, do you really want to start a new relationship on that kind of foundation? And no matter how bad your relationship is now, you at least owe it to your bf to get out before you begin a new one. Not trying to lecture you, but I'm going through the exact same thing right now and thought my views on it might help a little.
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Thanks lisa..you helped me indeed a lot with your post but I
really have no intentions to end the relationship..But I know I'm gonna have difficult times the comming weeks..But I will stick to my boyfriend cos he helped me through tuff times and I just can leave him alone..I love him to much..Whatever... time will tell..But I'm really not the cheating kind :titanic
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Glad I could help. If you ever need to chat just drop me a line.
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Hey G's what's-up you know it's a good thing to go window shopping because it's always done on the out-side of the store. LOL , and you all know how we girls can be when we shop on the inside, we almost always end up with something that we have to take back to the store wrong color, and not your size , or it just looked much better in the window display. Everything that looks good to us is not always good for us . And if it is then we know one is to many , and a thousand is never ever enough. So please be real careful they say where there's smoke there's fire. So don't burn your house down with everything still in it . warning , warning, you have just reached the outter-limits.You know what you have at home , but the other is like opening up a box of chocolate, you don't know what's really in that filling it may cause you to choke, or give you a up-sat stomach, So remember to keep a healthy diet. (Beloved) Love Ya Girls.
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hey namommy:

If you think your husband isn t looking your crazy. As long as you look whats the harm. I like the widow shopping advice. Aslo the advice about starting a relationship before gettign out of another. My sponsor says I should be on my own for one year between relationships. She is right, but damn it s hard. I have a history of horrible relationships and what I do doesn t work so time I listened to someone else. I m 5 months into my year. I m learning lots about me, and believe me I ve had chances, but its like something pops into my ehad that I cant do it. Almost like she put a spell on me. Oh well it s keeping me out of trouble, and she says I need to think of the messages I am sending to my kids about relationships, and I think that is the most important thing.

But I sure like window shopping.
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Believe me, as much as I b*tch about some of his bad habits, I know I've got it good. He's a good looking man, he treats me like gold, and he loves me and I love him. But, it's still nice to check out something that looks nice once in a while (from a distance).
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