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namommy · 09-25-2004, 06:47 PM

I don't know if this is right for here, but I need to get this out. When I had my surgery I was told no sex for 6 weeks. Well, it's only been 2 1/2 weeks and I'm...losing it!!

Today has been really hard because we went to a wedding and my hubby is very romantic and sappy (considering he's a man). Holding my hand, kissing me, telling me he loves me, talking about our wedding, and of course slow dancing. So by the time we got home I'm like...

My sponsor thinks this is why I am so grumpy and irritable. She told me to get a hobby. Yeah right!!! I'll give her a hobby.

splendra · 09-25-2004, 07:18 PM

((((((namommy)))))))

madmag · 09-26-2004, 11:45 AM

Couldn't you do *other* things besides actual sex?

Just a thought!

:saywhat?:

namommy · 09-26-2004, 07:56 PM

I guess I'll have to ask my doctor that one.

dotcom · 09-26-2004, 08:01 PM

im so sorry for you! but hey, ive got 20 months of abstinence from sex under my belt ... 2 and a half weeks, pshhh! at least you've got a good hubby and a guarantee after 2 and a half weeks! lol.

not minimizing your situation. just giving you a good view from the other side of the abstainance fence *wink*. you will rock on!

namommy · 09-26-2004, 08:31 PM

20 MONTHS. I'd be homicidal. lol

dotcom · 09-26-2004, 11:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by namommy

20 MONTHS. I'd be homicidal. lol

meh, its not all that bad. haha. hang in there! :banghead:

namommy · 09-30-2004, 05:44 AM

It's getting worse. 3 weeks yesterday.

I have this thing for strong arms and shoulders. This weekend archery seasons opens and last night my husband was getting in some target practice in the yard. Of course I had to sit at the kitchen table looking out the window at him. :banghead:

He keeps asking my Why am I torturing myself? I am an ADDICT!

namommy · 10-07-2004, 06:15 AM

4 weeks down, 2 to go.

tobstah · 10-07-2004, 06:59 AM

go namommy! it'll be that much better when you finally get it!

and hey, youve got 1/3 of the wait left.

Becky B · 10-07-2004, 08:35 AM

you'll be ok. I did it for 2 years before. but, It would be hard when you have a romantic person around! Unfortournately, I've never had that! Hang in there. You don't want an infection or complications.
hugs, Becky

bliss · 10-08-2004, 07:23 AM

At risk of being too personal in this reply have you considered other ways of deriving pleasure? Masturbation perhaps?

namommy · 10-08-2004, 03:30 PM

bliss,

been there tried that, not the same.

I am an addict, I always want what someone tells me I can't have. lol

KelKel · 10-08-2004, 03:41 PM

(((((nanamommy))))

wastedtime4me · 10-08-2004, 11:40 PM

I have to just be silly and jump in here and say i bet my hubby wishes he were married to you...lmao
Hang in there im sure your torture is almost over!!!!

namommy · 10-13-2004, 04:22 PM

5 weeks down, 1 to go. Don't leave me hangin' now ladies.

Of course my husband is not making things easier. He has been telling me about the romantic evening with music and candles and bubble baths that he has planned for me. I'm gonna kill him.

jenniferaz1980 · 10-13-2004, 05:45 PM

ohhhh my! Poor Namommy. You can do this.

I dont know why I am find such great humor out of this. Maybe it is one of the identifying things.

I have an idea for you. Every time you feel the urge think about ugly people like Dan Rather pr Jerry Springer. It might curve that urge for at least a second.

jerseybarb · 10-13-2004, 06:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by namommy

5 weeks down, 1 to go. Don't leave me hangin' now ladies.

Of course my husband is not making things easier. He has been telling me about the romantic evening with music and candles and bubble baths that he has planned for me. I'm gonna kill him.

OOOOOO! That sounds romantic!!!! Bet it will be worth the wait (almost) :rose

Ever take a cold shower, nah, that would probably jazz you up lol

namommy · 10-13-2004, 06:57 PM

My husband tells me to think "Dead puppies" That will depress anyone out of my thought pattern. lol

ohconnie · 10-13-2004, 11:48 PM

Hey Namommy,

I'm going to a Pleasure Party on Friday, wanna come along?

wastedtime4me · 10-14-2004, 04:55 PM

Im almost afraid to ask what this part entails..LMAO

maslanyjean · 10-14-2004, 05:13 PM

Namommy
your so funny.
i laughed.(not at you )
just can relate.
someone already said it
it will be the best ever for waiting so long.
hang in there
hugs jean

namommy · 10-14-2004, 05:17 PM

Oh God. 6 days to go. this is worse than not picking up. I may not make it. and he isn't helping matters much.

And I am glad we can all laugh together.

jenniferaz1980 · 10-14-2004, 06:43 PM

LOL

Dead Puppies? Dose it work!

LOL

This is funny stuff!

namommy · 10-15-2004, 05:55 AM

For me, nothing works.

But, I did make it through another day, 5 days and counting. Yippee.

09-25-2004, 06:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	Frustrated. I don't know if this is right for here, but I need to get this out. When I had my surgery I was told no sex for 6 weeks. Well, it's only been 2 1/2 weeks and I'm...losing it!! Today has been really hard because we went to a wedding and my hubby is very romantic and sappy (considering he's a man). Holding my hand, kissing me, telling me he loves me, talking about our wedding, and of course slow dancing. So by the time we got home I'm like... My sponsor thinks this is why I am so grumpy and irritable. She told me to get a hobby. Yeah right!!! I'll give her a hobby. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

09-25-2004, 07:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
splendra the girl can't help it Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: splendraville Posts: 5,495 Blog Entries: 3	((((((namommy))))))) __________________ nice has a hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

09-26-2004, 11:45 AM	#3 (permalink)
madmag Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: someplace, somewhere Posts: 57	Couldn't you do other things besides actual sex? Just a thought! :saywhat?: __________________ "This too shall pass"

09-26-2004, 07:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	I guess I'll have to ask my doctor that one. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

09-26-2004, 08:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
dotcom Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: laughing at my avatar Posts: 1,636	im so sorry for you! but hey, ive got 20 months of abstinence from sex under my belt ... 2 and a half weeks, pshhh! at least you've got a good hubby and a guarantee after 2 and a half weeks! lol. not minimizing your situation. just giving you a good view from the other side of the abstainance fence wink. you will rock on! __________________ probably not.

09-26-2004, 08:31 PM	#6 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	20 MONTHS. I'd be homicidal. lol __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

09-30-2004, 05:44 AM	#8 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	It's getting worse. 3 weeks yesterday. I have this thing for strong arms and shoulders. This weekend archery seasons opens and last night my husband was getting in some target practice in the yard. Of course I had to sit at the kitchen table looking out the window at him. :banghead: He keeps asking my Why am I torturing myself? I am an ADDICT! __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-07-2004, 06:15 AM	#9 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	4 weeks down, 2 to go. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-07-2004, 06:59 AM	#10 (permalink)
tobstah tha toastah Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: montreal, quebec Posts: 205	go namommy! it'll be that much better when you finally get it! and hey, youve got 1/3 of the wait left. __________________ The stars are not afraid to flicker out like fireflies. And you? If you weep because the sun has gone down, your tears will blind you to the stars.

10-07-2004, 08:35 AM	#11 (permalink)
Becky B Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: New Orleans Posts: 82	you'll be ok. I did it for 2 years before. but, It would be hard when you have a romantic person around! Unfortournately, I've never had that! Hang in there. You don't want an infection or complications. hugs, Becky

10-08-2004, 07:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
bliss Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Toronto, Ontario Posts: 46	At risk of being too personal in this reply have you considered other ways of deriving pleasure? Masturbation perhaps?

10-08-2004, 03:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	bliss, been there tried that, not the same. I am an addict, I always want what someone tells me I can't have. lol __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-08-2004, 03:41 PM	#14 (permalink)
KelKel Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: The Mohave Desert Posts: 2,307	(((((nanamommy))))

10-08-2004, 11:40 PM	#15 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 637	I have to just be silly and jump in here and say i bet my hubby wishes he were married to you...lmao Hang in there im sure your torture is almost over!!!! __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

10-13-2004, 04:22 PM	#16 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	5 weeks down, 1 to go. Don't leave me hangin' now ladies. Of course my husband is not making things easier. He has been telling me about the romantic evening with music and candles and bubble baths that he has planned for me. I'm gonna kill him. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-13-2004, 05:45 PM	#17 (permalink)
jenniferaz1980 New and Unsure Join Date: May 2004 Location: phoenix az Posts: 191	ohhhh my! Poor Namommy. You can do this. I dont know why I am find such great humor out of this. Maybe it is one of the identifying things. I have an idea for you. Every time you feel the urge think about ugly people like Dan Rather pr Jerry Springer. It might curve that urge for at least a second.

10-13-2004, 06:57 PM	#19 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	My husband tells me to think "Dead puppies" That will depress anyone out of my thought pattern. lol __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-13-2004, 11:48 PM	#20 (permalink)
ohconnie Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: California Posts: 28	Hey Namommy, I'm going to a Pleasure Party on Friday, wanna come along? __________________ Courage is doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you're scared. Connie

10-14-2004, 04:55 PM	#21 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 637	Im almost afraid to ask what this part entails..LMAO __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

10-14-2004, 05:13 PM	#22 (permalink)
maslanyjean Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: CATASAUQUA PA Posts: 8	Namommy your so funny. i laughed.(not at you ) just can relate. someone already said it it will be the best ever for waiting so long. hang in there hugs jean

10-14-2004, 05:17 PM	#23 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	Oh God. 6 days to go. this is worse than not picking up. I may not make it. and he isn't helping matters much. And I am glad we can all laugh together. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

10-14-2004, 06:43 PM	#24 (permalink)
jenniferaz1980 New and Unsure Join Date: May 2004 Location: phoenix az Posts: 191	LOL Dead Puppies? Dose it work! LOL This is funny stuff!

10-15-2004, 05:55 AM	#25 (permalink)
namommy Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Never, Never land Posts: 2,851 Blog Entries: 1	For me, nothing works. But, I did make it through another day, 5 days and counting. Yippee. __________________ I came into this program to save my a** and found out it was attached to my soul. -- Anonymous

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