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ButterflyChaser · 09-02-2004, 09:18 AM

I'm gonna see him in less than 5 hours.............

but I'm really feeling like this.......,

shhhhh don't tell anyone you seen me this way!

Paulie · 09-02-2004, 09:38 AM

Butterfly -

Why shhh? it is great that you are happy and excited, be happy and excited, show it!! It feels great doesn't it?

I hope you have a GREAT day.

ButterflyChaser · 09-02-2004, 10:06 AM

I guess I'm on the down-low cuz in a way, I feel uncomfortable because my family is not too happy about the whole situation, all they know is what happened in the past, him hurting me, me in the hospital...do u remember that post back in Nov??? I mean accidents happen & forgiving is easy, but we were both messed up mentally! I want to give us another chance, I think it's worth it! Now if he goes back to acting crappy to me & not helping out w/bills then he's OUT!

Paulie · 09-02-2004, 10:21 AM

Like I told you on another post...take care of you first, if your family sees you taking care of you and him taking care of him (which means him treating you well too) they will change.

I just married 3 weeks ago a man that I used with for years and he mistreated me alot when we used, well we mistreated each other. My family was leary about us getting together after we got sober, today if they had to choose I think they would choose him over me

.

Time, it takes time for the ones that love us to forgive ones that hurt us and our families seem to always blame the other person.

Enjoy, show them you are happy.

CarrieSueBee · 09-02-2004, 12:27 PM

Butterfly -
As they say all the time...Easy does it. If it is supposed to be, it will blossom naturally and easily and taking it slowly won't hurt a thing. Be cautious, but expect to be treated well. Don't settle for anything less. We are all here rooting for you girl. :35: "Go Butterfly..., Go Butterfly..., Go Butterfly.."!!!!!

ButterflyChaser · 09-02-2004, 01:52 PM

Thanks Ya'll!! I'm leaving here from work in about 15 minutes to go pick him up!!! What's up with all the butterflies in my stomach! Does it have to do w/my username?

Thanks goodness they are not moths in my stomach, so butterflies is a GOOD thing!

((((((((((((((((((((((all ya'll)))))))))))))))))))))

josezette · 09-02-2004, 06:07 PM

I'm actually going to quote Madonna: "Don't go for second best, baby. Put your love to the test. Make him express how he feels and then you'll know your love is real.." hee hee. Now I'm inspired to lock the door and dance around the room.....shhhhhh. Respect Yourself.

wastedtime4me · 09-02-2004, 08:35 PM

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i really do hope you have a wonderful evening with your man tonite!!!
i am jealous..butterflies???lucky you...lol

CarrieSueBee · 09-02-2004, 10:06 PM

:smlove2: Ahhh love! Isn;t it grand?
Then why does it feel like this :banghead: some times!!???!!

bubblze30 · 09-03-2004, 07:13 AM

BF How was the first night together? I want all the details.

wastedtime4me · 09-03-2004, 07:35 AM

yeah me too..we will live vicariously through your stories...lol

Chy · 09-04-2004, 09:07 AM

Well? How did it go??? *enquiring minds want to know! *

bubblze30 · 09-04-2004, 09:26 AM

HELLO Where are you. Oh, I think she only goes on line at work. Hope you had a good time and I truely hope everything works out this time around. Hoipe to hear from you soon.

09-02-2004, 09:18 AM	#1 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,020	Had to get this outta my system..... I'm gonna see him in less than 5 hours............. but I'm really feeling like this......., shhhhh don't tell anyone you seen me this way! __________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

09-02-2004, 09:38 AM	#2 (permalink)
Paulie It is what it is!!! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Sobriety Posts: 5,785	Butterfly - Why shhh? it is great that you are happy and excited, be happy and excited, show it!! It feels great doesn't it? I hope you have a GREAT day. __________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR

09-02-2004, 10:06 AM	#3 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,020	I guess I'm on the down-low cuz in a way, I feel uncomfortable because my family is not too happy about the whole situation, all they know is what happened in the past, him hurting me, me in the hospital...do u remember that post back in Nov??? I mean accidents happen & forgiving is easy, but we were both messed up mentally! I want to give us another chance, I think it's worth it! Now if he goes back to acting crappy to me & not helping out w/bills then he's OUT! __________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

09-02-2004, 10:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
Paulie It is what it is!!! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Sobriety Posts: 5,785	Like I told you on another post...take care of you first, if your family sees you taking care of you and him taking care of him (which means him treating you well too) they will change. I just married 3 weeks ago a man that I used with for years and he mistreated me alot when we used, well we mistreated each other. My family was leary about us getting together after we got sober, today if they had to choose I think they would choose him over me . Time, it takes time for the ones that love us to forgive ones that hurt us and our families seem to always blame the other person. Enjoy, show them you are happy. __________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR

09-02-2004, 12:27 PM	#5 (permalink)
CarrieSueBee Headed in the right direction. Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 257	Butterfly - As they say all the time...Easy does it. If it is supposed to be, it will blossom naturally and easily and taking it slowly won't hurt a thing. Be cautious, but expect to be treated well. Don't settle for anything less. We are all here rooting for you girl. :35: "Go Butterfly..., Go Butterfly..., Go Butterfly.."!!!!! __________________ Each day of your life, as soon as you open your eyes in the morning, you can square away for a happy and successful day. ~ George Matthew Adams

09-02-2004, 01:52 PM	#6 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,020	Thanks Ya'll!! I'm leaving here from work in about 15 minutes to go pick him up!!! What's up with all the butterflies in my stomach! Does it have to do w/my username? Thanks goodness they are not moths in my stomach, so butterflies is a GOOD thing! ((((((((((((((((((((((all ya'll))))))))))))))))))))) __________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

09-02-2004, 06:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
josezette Step in the name of LOVE Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta Posts: 44	I'm actually going to quote Madonna: "Don't go for second best, baby. Put your love to the test. Make him express how he feels and then you'll know your love is real.." hee hee. Now I'm inspired to lock the door and dance around the room.....shhhhhh. Respect Yourself. __________________ To be loyal to the good and the true within oneself is to serve the Higher Power.

09-02-2004, 08:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 637	{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{bf}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} i really do hope you have a wonderful evening with your man tonite!!! i am jealous..butterflies???lucky you...lol __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

09-02-2004, 10:06 PM	#9 (permalink)
CarrieSueBee Headed in the right direction. Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 257	:smlove2: Ahhh love! Isn;t it grand? Then why does it feel like this :banghead: some times!!???!! __________________ Each day of your life, as soon as you open your eyes in the morning, you can square away for a happy and successful day. ~ George Matthew Adams

09-03-2004, 07:13 AM	#10 (permalink)
bubblze30 Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: mass Posts: 1,355	BF How was the first night together? I want all the details. __________________ "What don't kill us. Will make us stronger"

09-03-2004, 07:35 AM	#11 (permalink)
wastedtime4me ~FEELS SO ALIVE~ Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In A sTaTe Of HaPPiNeSS Posts: 637	yeah me too..we will live vicariously through your stories...lol __________________ ~WaStEdTiMe4Me~

09-04-2004, 09:07 AM	#12 (permalink)
Chy Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: El Paso, Tx Posts: 5,867	Well? How did it go??? enquiring minds want to know!

09-04-2004, 09:26 AM	#13 (permalink)
bubblze30 Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: mass Posts: 1,355	HELLO Where are you. Oh, I think she only goes on line at work. Hope you had a good time and I truely hope everything works out this time around. Hoipe to hear from you soon. __________________ "What don't kill us. Will make us stronger"

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